Last blog, we talked about brainstorming your goals. But let's assume, you just got engaged over the holidays and you're on cloud nine. It's a wonderful feeling. You're enjoying being newly engaged and then it hits you: you better start preparing! But where on earth do you start?
For those brides-to-be with little or no wedding planning experience or involvement, this can be a daunting task. Your mother says you should begin with the venue, your sister wants to take you dress shopping, and your best friend forwards you a plethora of wedding websites that will surely help you create the perfect day. So who's right? Everybody and nobody. Your wedding will be one of the most significant and special days in your life, so you need to treat it as such from the start. In the big scheme of things, you will definitely have to prioritize your wedding day goals. But for now, and if you have plenty of time before the big day, pick the thing that excites you most. Choose the action that will get you in the wedding planning mentality and inspired to make your day uniquely yours.
Instead of feeling overwhelmed, feel confident to pick the thing you want to do most as a newly engaged woman. The key here is to choose one thing. The good news is that there are no right or wrong answers. Trust that wherever you decide to start, it will carry you to your next goal to accomplish, person to meet, or decision to make. You will meet people or a planner along the way, who will guide you with all the details and timelines. Your job is simply to get the ball rolling. Make the one thing, that feels right to you, your first goal in this exciting journey!
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