You want your wedding day to be perfect, but just can't seem to shake that nagging feeling that something awkward or embarrassing is bound to spoil your big day. Whether you're afraid one of your friends may drink too much, a relative will give the never ending speech, a disgruntled guest will give you a few choice words, or some uninvited plus ones show up you can prepare yourself for how to deal with such situations. Here are five ways to help: Be Proactive:If you're concerned about something specific that could pose a problem, like a family history of alcohol abuse, you can choose to nip it in the bud by not serving alcohol at all. Having a dry wedding can be just as fun and exciting, without all the worry about what might happen if people drink more than they should. You'll have to weigh the advantages versus the disadvantages on this one. But it should come out pretty clear, what would serve you and your wedding day best. Same goes for uninvited guests. If you know who you're dealing with, order extras from the caterer.
Give Instruction Ahead of Time: Where at all possible, give the people who have a role in your wedding instruction on what is appropriate or not. That includes length of speeches and even stories or photos they might share that you'd rather them not. Appoint a Keeper of the Rules to make sure everyone is following your wishes and have a plan in place if they don't. Cue the music, anyone?
Keep Your Wedding Planner in the Loop:If there is someone in particular who concerns you, let your planner in on the secret. She can be on the lookout for any potential crisis and may be able to intervene if necessary.
Pick a Point Person: If you don't have a wedding planner or aren't comfortable with them handling awkward family affairs, pick a friend or relative you do feel comfortable with to handle sticky situations. It's usually best to choose an individual who's not emotionally attached to the circumstances; that's why wedding planners work so well. But definitely ask someone ahead of time if he can run interference if called for.
Laugh it Off:Let's face it, even with all the preparation in the world, something may happen on your wedding day that you weren't planning and you can either let it ruin your day or you can laugh it off. Sometimes chalking things up to life's little problems is easier than having to explain everything. You can even come up with some prepared lines to help you get through the moment. After all, "if my wedding was perfect, I wouldn't have such funny stories to tell years from now!"
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