As the holidays are fast approaching, many of us find ourselves asking, how are we going to get it all done. All the more so, the bride. In addition to planning your wedding, you no doubt have holiday shopping, baking, decorating, or other preparations to contend with as well. Your obligations may have expanded a bit and you're wondering, which one is more important to focus on now. I would suggest not to weigh the two equally. In fact, sometimes it's better not to compare things at all.
Your wedding and spending time on the holidays are both important parts of life. They are two very different experiences, and both that will eventually create memories of their own. Knowing this, you can put aside any thoughts of "what's more important" and focus on the memories you'd like to create. Holidays are a meaningful part of life and dedicating time to it and sharing with others in them will not only help you take a breather from all the wedding stuff, but will also remind you that you don't have to put your life on hold while preparing for the big day. Each day is a new opportunity to create wonderful and meaningful memories with all of your loved ones and it's important not to let your growing list of things to do get in the way of that. While you may decide there are some things that you can or cannot do, given your plans and time constraints, do pick at least one day during this time of year-whether it's Christmas eve or day, Chanukah, etc.- to have a wedding planning free day. Be in the moment. Enjoy the holidays and cherish the memories.
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